Preparing for the Last 10 Nights of Ramadan-Laiela Tul Qadr

PREPARING FOR THE LAST 10 NIGHTS OF RAMADAN

This
is it; we have entered the most important nights of the year. In it is Laiela
Tul Qadr, a night better than 1000 months. Any action done on this night will
better than doing it for a thousand months.

Hazrat
‘A’ishah [Allaah be pleased
with her] the beloved wife of Holy Prophet ﷺ reported
that Allaah’s Messenger ﷺ used to exert himself in devotion during the last ten
nights to a greater extent than at any other time.

[Ṣaḥeeḥ Muslim 1175]

So,
for those who haven’t made the best out of the first 20 days of Ramadan, you
still have a chance to redeem yourself. Do not look back to what has passed nor
give up and lose hope. What is important is how you will end your Ramadan as
the Prophet ﷺ said:

“Verily
deeds are according to their endings.” 

[Al-Bukhari]

‎إنما الأعمال بالخواتيم

So,
what are some tips one can do to make the best out of these 10 nights: 

1.
PERFORM
I’TIKAAF [Seclusion In Masjid]

2.    FOR WOMEN [At Home]

For
those who are able, and Masjid has allowed for it, spend your nights and days
in the Masjid and focus on worshipping your Lord by performing various acts of
worship like Dhikr/Zikr

[Remembrance of Allaah], extra prayers, recitation and studying of the Quran, du’a…etc.

This
was the practice of the Holy Prophet ﷺ in the last 10 nights of Ramadan.

The
Holy Prophet ﷺ used to observe I’tikaaf every year

[during
Ramadan] for ten days; in the year in which he passed away, he observed I’tikaaf
for twenty days.

[Al-Bukhari]. 

Do
not get distracted. Avoid any social media activities and focus on worship
only. If one is able to take days off of work without a problem, then he/she
should. If one is unable, one can still perform I’tikaaf for however long Allaah
makes it easy for him/her and one should also place the intention of I’tikaaf
every time he/she is to enter the Masjid.

2. MAKE LOTS OF PRAYERS [DU’A] 

Every
night, have a portion of your time specifically for Du’a. Pour out your heart
to Allaah Kareem asking Him for your every need in the life and next. Pray for
yourself, family, friends and the whole Ummah. Do not forget to include the
most important du’a in which the Prophet ﷺ encouraged us to say in Laila tul
Qadr.

Hazrat
Aishah [May Allaah be pleased
with her] said:

 I asked the Messenger of Allaah:

‘O
Prophet of Allaah, if I know what night is the night of Qadr, what should I say
during it?’

 He said: ‘Say: O Allaah, You are the One Who
Pardons and You love to pardon, so pardon me.’ “

[Ahmad, Ibn Majah, and Tirmizee].

اَللَّهُمَّ
اِنَّكَ عَفُوٌّ ، تُحِبُّ الْعَفْوَ فَاعْفُ عَنِّي

The
transliteration of this Dua is

 “Allaahumma Innaka
‘Afuwwun Tuhibbul ‘Afwa Fa’fu ‘Annee”

3. RECITE AND STUDY THE QURAN

As
much as you can, try to read and contemplate on the verses of the Quran. Laila
Tul Qadr is the night in which the Quran was revealed. Choose your favorite
reciter to listen to so that your tears flow from the awe of Allaah Kareem’s
Words. Allaah is talking to you. Listen and take heed of what your Creator is
telling you.

4. GIVE CHARITY EVERY NIGHT 

Imagine,
if you give charity on the Laila Tul Qadr, it would be better than if you have
been given charity for 83 years!! Don’t miss this opportunity. Whether it is an
even or odd night, secure yourself by giving charity every night, even if it’s
a small amount.

5. REMEMBER ALLAAH MUCH [ZIKR/DHIKR] 

And
what better way can you spend the nights remembering Allaah by praising Him, glorifying
Him, mentioning His Oneness, seeking His forgiveness, sending peace &
blessings upon His Prophet…etc. Keep your tongues and hearts busy with the
remembrance of Allaah Almighty. 

6. PERFORM NIGHT PRAYERS 

Whether
it is the Taraweeh or Tahajjud, do not miss any of the night prayers in these
last 10 nights. The Prophet of Allaah ﷺ said: “Whoever stands in prayer on Laila
Tul -Qadr out of faith and in the hope of reward, his previous sins will be
forgiven.”

[Al-Bukhari & Muslim] 

7. GET ENOUGH REST DURING THE DAY 

Take
a good nap during the day with the intention of it being for Almighty Allaah’s
Sake in order that you can wake up energized and ready to worship at night.
There is no problem if one feels tired at night and needs some rest. But have
your intention and make it a short nap so the great Blessing of the night is
not missed. 

8. STAY OFF OF SOCIAL MEDIA

Unless
you will be using social media to give Dawah and encourage people to do good
for these 10 nights, then one should avoid social media completely as it can be
a great distraction. You have the whole year to go on social media so just
sacrifice these 10 nights and make the best out of them.

9. ENCOURAGE OTHERS TO EXERT IN GOOD DEEDS

Wake
your family up for prayer and encourage them to do good and seek this great
opportunity of being forgiven and pardoned by the All-Mighty Allaah.

Hazrat
Aaishah [may Allaah be pleased
with her] reported: With the start of the last ten days
of Ramadan, the Prophet ﷺ used to tighten his waist belt [ work harder]
and used to pray the whole night, and used to keep his family awake for the
prayers. 

Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 2024,

10. PERFORM OTHER GREAT DEEDS 

Whatever
good you can do during these nights, do not miss it. Whether it is honoring
one’s parents, helping those in need, being kind and helpful to others, showing
good character, giving dawah, passing out water or dates to break someone’s
fasting…. etc. whatever opportunity you have to do good, do it and don’t
belittle any deed.

11. HAVE AN INTENTION FOR EVERYTHING YOU DO 

The
Prophet [peace be upon him] said: “Actions are according to intentions,
and everyone will get what was intended” 

[Al-Bukhari]. 

Regardless
of what it is that you will be doing in these nights, always set an intention
that it is for the Sake of Allaah Kareem. This simple act will multiply your
reward. When you are taking a nap, have an intention that you are resting so
that you can wake up energized and ready to worship Almighty Allaah. If you are
taking care of the kids, cooking, helping your parents out, studying for an
exam…etc. set your intention.

Remind
yourself that taking care of your family is an act of worship. Studying to get
a good education, is an act of worship. Before eating, have an intention that
you are doing so to be healthy and energized to be able to stand up in prayers.
Even when you are dealing and speaking to others, be the best in character.
Renewing your intentions before engaging in these small actions can greatly
multiply your reward.

The Prophet ﷺ said…

“Whoever
established prayers on the night of Qadr out of sincere faith and hoping for a
reward from Allaah Kareem, then all his previous sins will be forgiven; and
whoever fasts in the month of Ramadan out of sincere faith, and hoping for a
reward from Allaah Kareem, then all his previous sins will be forgiven.”

Al Bukhari 1901 

May
Allaah Kareem accept from us Laila Tul Qadr and give us the ability to excel in
all goodness.

Aameen.